Myths vs Facts

Fact: Large studies involving millions of children around the world have found no link between vaccines and autism. The original 1998 paper that claimed a link was retracted, and its author lost his medical licence. Vaccines protect autistic children from serious diseases, just like every other child.

Fact: Autism is a neurodevelopmental difference strongly linked to genetics. The old “refrigerator mother” idea — that cold parenting causes autism — was proven false decades ago. Parents should never be blamed.

Fact: There is no evidence that screens cause autism. However, heavy screen time can reduce talking and play for any young child, so balanced, interactive time with people is good for every child.

Fact: Autistic people feel emotions deeply — sometimes more intensely than others. They may show feelings differently, or find it hard to read other people’s faces, but that is not the same as not caring.

Fact: Many non-speaking children understand far more than they can say. Always talk to and around them respectfully. With pictures, signs or speech devices, many share thoughts that surprise everyone.

Fact: Autism is lifelong — it is part of who a person is. Therapy and support can make a huge difference to communication, independence and happiness, but anyone selling a “cure” should be treated with great caution.

Fact: Children do not outgrow autism, but they do grow, learn and develop throughout life. With the right support, many gain skills their families never expected.

Fact: Both are stereotypes. Autistic people have the full range of abilities. Some have an intellectual disability, many do not, and only a few have exceptional “savant” skills.

Fact: Boys are diagnosed more often, but girls are autistic too. Girls are often missed or diagnosed late because they may hide their difficulties or show them in quieter ways.

Fact: A tantrum is usually about wanting something and can stop when the child gets it. A meltdown is a response to being overwhelmed — by noise, emotions or change — and the child cannot simply stop. They need calm and safety, not punishment.

Fact: Many autistic children and adults want friendships very much. They may socialise differently — preferring one close friend, shared interests or quieter settings.

Fact: Autism is not a mental illness, a punishment or a curse. It is a natural difference in brain development found in every community around the world.